Stewart Myrent
Janis, you are correct. The one thing we have to look forward to, is that once we reach the winter solstice, December 21, Friday this year, the days will, indeed, be getting longer, although at a glacially slow pace of about a minute a day. Also, there is the slight issue of getting through all of January & February, which as I recall, are worse than November & December. However, I do agree that we should embrace the lengthening days, with all the ardor we can, as it's about the only thing we've got going for us, with winter approaching. (By the way, up here in northern Lake Co., winter is already here. It has arrived!) But, I've been thinking a lot of my grandparents lately. They were all born about 1890 & they were all born overseas, in eastern Europe. I used to think of their generation as the one that saw the most changes in the world, in their lifetimes. When they were all born, there were no automobiles. If you were very lucky, your family had a horse/ox and a wooden cart. You had a chance of being minimally prosperous. TV? Science fiction. They didn't even have radio. Forget about living to see airplanes; these people, if they were lucky, lived to see a man land on the moon, in their lifetimes. So, I always thought they had seen the most changes in the world, things that would affect them daily, than any other generation. Of course, our generation & succeeding generations, have seen & will see, vast changes in our daily lives, but our grandparents' generation had the most primitive starting point. But, lately I've been thinking of them in a totally different light. I have to admit, that the reason I've had this change in viewpoint, is because of these caravans, heading to the U.S. through Mexico. It prompts this question in me, "What makes a person(s) decide to pick up & leave a community, that their family may have resided in for 100 yrs. or more - a community where they have the life & customs & language that they have grown used to & comfortable with - to go to a foreign land, where they do not speak the language, do not have the same foods available, do not have the same customs, do not have the same infrastructure? What makes a person (people) do this?" So, when I think of that, I think of how that relates to my grandparents' decision to leave their homelands & come to America. How bad does your daily life have to be, where you say, 'I can't take this for one more day' & decide to go to a totaly foreign land, where you don't speak the language (major problem) & maybe don't know anyone, for the HOPE that you will find a better & safer life for yourself & your kids (I don't think our grandparents thought about us, their grandkids, at that point in the decision-making process). I know they heard that the streets in America were 'paved with gold'; don't know if they took that literally, or realized it was a metaphor. What I realize, though, is to make that decision to leave your homeland, to go to a totally new & unknown country, takes major 'balls', guts, if you prefer. But, how much of that decision is determined by your own "free will" & how much by circumstance? This is why I've been thinking about my grandparents. Don't know if their decision to emigrate to U.S. was a result of uninformed "rosy optimism", or external, uncontrollable, "outside governmental forces". Either way, I am so happy that all my grandparents decided to leave their homelands to come to the U.S., so that I could be the beneficiary of a wonderful "accident of birth". I realize that for some, great-grandparents may be needed to substitute for grandparents, but if you have to go back further than that, you're still the progeny of immigrants!
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